The Paradox of Goodness

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The Paradox of Goodness

When most of us hear the word goodness, we think of something small or simple. We tell our kids, “Be good.” I’m 34, and my mom still tells me to be good at the end of every phone call. Not because she thinks I’m bad, but it’s just what moms say. Teachers write “Good job” on papers. When we’re frustrated, we say, “Oh, for goodness’ sake.” We even call burgers, songs, or movies “good.” So when we read that goodness is one of the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22, we might think, “Okay, just be good.” But goodness in the Bible is so much deeper than that. It’s not just about being polite, following rules, or acting nice. It’s about reflecting the character of God Himself.


Where Goodness Began

To understand what Paul meant by “goodness,” we’ve got to go back to the beginning—literally—to Genesis 1.

Every time God created something—the light, the sky, the land, the animals, and finally humanity—He looked at it and said,

“It is good.”

The Hebrew word used there is “tov.” It doesn’t mean “good enough” or “acceptable.” It means beautiful, life-giving, and exactly as it should be. So when God says, “It is good,” He’s saying, “This reflects My heart. It’s doing what I designed it to do. It’s bringing life where there was nothing before.” That’s the standard of goodness Paul was talking about—a creative, life-producing goodness that mirrors God’s nature.


Goodness Is God’s Character Flowing Through You

When the Holy Spirit lives in you, He starts forming that same creative, life-giving heart of God inside you.

That means:

  • When you bring peace into chaos — you’re echoing Genesis 1.
  • When you lift someone up instead of tearing them down — you’re echoing Genesis 1.
  • When you speak encouragement into someone’s darkness — you’re saying, “Let there be light.”

Goodness is more than niceness. It’s not just smiling at someone or complimenting their shirt—it’s pointing them toward the God who made them.


Goodness Is Active, Not Passive

God didn’t just think good thoughts in Genesis 1—He acted. He spoke, formed, and filled creation. That’s what real goodness looks like: It steps in instead of stepping back. It stands up instead of sitting down. It makes a difference instead of just staying decent. We often confuse being good with doing good. Being good follows rules. Doing good changes lives.


The Trap of “Being Good”

In school, I used to get little blue slips that said, “Caught being good.” I wasn’t a troublemaker, but I was clever. I’d come up with mischievous ideas and let the class clown take the fall. I was “good”—I followed the rules—but my heart wasn’t always pure.


Spiritually, we can do the same thing:

  • “I’m not gossiping… but did you hear about so-and-so?”
  • “I’m not lying… I’m just not telling the full truth.”
  • “I’m not sinning… I’m just getting as close as I can without crossing the line.”

We follow the rules but miss the relationship. Goodness isn’t about avoiding sin; it’s about pursuing redemption.


What Goodness Looks Like in 2025

Here’s what it looks like to live with true goodness today:

  • When you forgive instead of holding a grudge — that’s goodness.
  • When you give generously, even when it’s tight — that’s goodness.
  • When you tell the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable — that’s goodness.
  • When you serve, build, repair, or bless — you’re bringing Genesis 1 to life again.

Every time you create order, beauty, or blessing, God looks at it and says, “It is good.”


The Counterfeit of Goodness

Of course, the enemy loves to twist what God calls good. In Genesis 3, the serpent told Eve that the forbidden fruit was “good for food and pleasing to the eye.” Same word—good—but a totally different meaning. That’s worldly goodness:

“Do what feels good.” “Follow your heart.” “Be true to yourself.”
But God’s goodness says: “Do what’s good for others.” “Follow My heart.” “Be true to Me.”

Worldly goodness asks, “Does it make me happy?” Godly goodness asks, “Does it make others whole?”


Goodness Is Redemptive

Even after sin entered the world, God didn’t stop being good.

Psalm 23 says,

“Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life.”

That word follow means to chase after. God’s goodness doesn’t sit still—it pursues us. And now, that same Spirit that chased you down lives inside you, calling you to chase others down with goodness too. Be the person who brings hope into hopeless places. Be the person whose presence makes others say, “God must be near.”


Goodness Is God’s Creation Flowing Through You

You don’t have to create a universe to reflect God’s goodness. You just have to let Him create through you.

Every time you:

  • Build instead of tear down,
  • Speak life instead of criticism,
  • Choose generosity over greed,
  • Use your gifts to bless others—

God looks at your life and says again, “It is good.”


The Takeaway

Goodness isn’t something you perform—it’s something God produces. It’s not the result of willpower—it’s the result of walking with the Spirit. In Genesis 1, God created a world that was good. In Galatians 5, He’s creating a people who are good. The same Spirit who hovered over the waters now hovers in your heart—ready to bring light into darkness and beauty out of brokenness. So instead of asking, “Am I being good?” Ask, “Is God’s goodness being seen through me?”

Because when it is, God looks at His world again and says, “It is good.”


“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” — Romans 12:21 (NIV)


Reflection Questions

  1. Who can I bless this week in a tangible way?
  2. Where have I settled for “being nice” instead of truly doing good?